I Went To A Wedding

Start of a Life Together

Recently, I attended a wedding. A family friend's daughter got married. I have attended many weddings but this seemed a little special.

We were involved with the ceremony from the early morning when the groom and his merry men came to fetch the bride and had to negotiate the usual horseplay and pranks which the bride's "sisters" had concocted. This included wearing underwear with tasteful graffiti over their suits, eat wasabi sushi, had hair removal plaster applied to their hairy legs or arms, blow balloons till they burst, answer trivia relating to the bride and finally negotiate the amount for the ang pows. It was quite a challenge for the groom. I was glad that the groom persevered.

I digress.....this wedding was special because I knew the bride from when she was a little girl. Our families were close friends at that stage in our lives and we made the usual McDonald's circuit attending or organising birthday parties. Hence, it was surreal that this same little girl is now getting married ! She is the first among my "closer" friends whose children have reached a marriageable age.

I guess we have graduated from the McDonalds circuit to the wedding circuit. Soon we could be on the McDonalds circuit again, this time as grandparents :) Such is the circle of life. I have not had a McDonald's burger for a long time !

Park Connector Uncle Goes to Kallang

I am not a wordsmith, hence, my photographs tend to do the talking. When I started writing this blog post, I attempted to summon my writing skills from a annals of my left brain. It did not work well for me. You know the saying, "A picture paints a thousand words." Being a pragmatist, I would rather take a photo than to write a thousand words :p
Some weeks back, I decided to torment the Park Connectors as I journeyed from Ang Mo Kio to Kallang. It was quite an interesting ride which brought me through what appeared to be the different segments of Singapore's social class.
My journey began from Bishan Park, which was littered with people engaging in different activities - roller blading, cycling, dog run, spa treatment, arty farty eating outlets, children wading in Kallang River catching fish, joggers with colour coordinated outfits, cyclists with fancy outfits, people sitting by the river and reading their eBooks. Everything about them screamed middle-class". I think the establishment in this land calls them PMETs.
My journey along Kallang River took me through Bishan housing estate and I had to cross Braddel Road using an overhead bridge. Very clever of them to design the bridge with a ramp to push your bicycle. Kudos to LTA or NEA or NParks....anyway you know who you are.

Ramp is handy for pushing your bike up the bridge. They are so thoughtful.

"Iron Eagle" on the ramp

When I got to the other side of the road, I was in Toa Payoh. I was greeted with the sight of a bird (I think it is a heron) catching his breakfast. This side of the road had a very different look and feel. No more joggers in colour coordinated outfits. This was "uncle-land" I was right at home smiling at the uncles who seemed to past their time by fishing. I have been on this route several times and I am sure it is the same group of uncles I see fishing.

I think that's a Heron

Seamlessly, Toa Payoh led me to Potong Pasir. Potong Pasir saw more of a middle-aged crowd.  The cycling trail led me towards the school complex of St Andrew's. St Andrew's Junior College was on my right and the rest of the secondary, primary and pre-school was across the river, connected by a covered bridge. As I peered into the school compound, I was in envy. It reminded me of the saying, "It takes a village to raise a child." This was quite a village, complete with every facility you could think of including a running track, soccer field, swimming pool, chapel and eateries.

Imagine a school with a river running through it...awesome!

I took a closer look at the St Andrew's school logo and noticed it looked very military-like". I wonder what inspired the logo.

I then crossed what must have been spaghetti-inspired road junctions and arrived at the Kallang area. It was obvious that this was a humbler segment of Singapore's society. The flats were much older and there were children running around in singlets and shorts. It was almost akin to the kampong days, except they were running around in a concrete jungle. They seemed to be enjoying themselves - more so than the children at Bishan Park. As I pondered why this was so, it dawned on me that the children here were unsupervised and seemed to be on an adventure. I was reminded of my childhood when we caught spiders, climbed trees, crawled through drains, etc. By contrast, most of the children at Bishan Park were supervised by adults who constantly reminded them to be careful, don't run, keep to the left, watch out.... etc.
As I followed the footpath, I saw another texture of society. I was approaching Kallang MRT station. The open field was occupied by foreign workers. It was quite an interesting  mix from Philippines, Myanmar and India (?). They were having picnics on the open grass patch. Some were obviously couples who only get a chance to meet each other on weekends.
My journey ended at the Kampong Bugis area, near Loysel's Toy. There is only one word which describes this area - eclectic. This is where the former Kallang gasworks was. Amid some very old buildings, there is a pristine park overlooking the mouth of the Kallang River. There were foreign workers here too. This time, they appear to be from Philippines and possibly Bangladesh.
It was time to make my trek back to Bishan and I retraced the route back.
I headed for the lotus pond and saw a pond barren of lotus flowers. What a depressing sight.

Lotus pond with only lotus seeds

Something caught the corner of my eye. Lo and behold, it was a lone lotus flower :) That made my day.

Lone lotus flower

Is that pretty or what....magic

As I was about to leave the park to head home, a flower caught my eye. It was the flower of the canon ball tree. Enjoy :)

Canon ball flower?

Adventures of a Park Connector Uncle

My Trusty Steed - Iron Eagle

I used to ride my road bike on weekends. Having been on the wrong end of several close shaves, I have given up being a roadie. I decided to explore the Park Connectors and love it. Before I started my adventures, I had to raise my "Iron Eagle" from the annals of neglect. I have had it since 2002 or so. She served me well till 2010 when I was seduced by the thrill of speed on a road bike. With a bit of elbow grease and new tyres, she was set to go.

On 6 July 2013, I decided to torment the Park Connectors from Ang Mo Kio to Punggol. It was quite an adventure. The following photos document the trail I took. The first landmark was the Sengkang Fire Station.

Sengkang Fire Station

I am sure it is equipped with the best facilities and equipment. As I stood there looking at the fire station, I cannot help but sense that there was something missing. After about a minute, I found what I was looking for - character and excitement. It looked rather clinical. Till this day, when I look at the "old-style" fire stations like the one at Hill Street, I feel a certain rush. The older fire stations looked more dramatic and always ready for action. This building did not give me that. Maybe it is because there is no look-out tower.

As I was about to continue my adventure, I saw this pigeon perched on a railing, barely 2 metres from where I was standing. He appeared to be sharing my view, and maybe my thoughts too :)

Mr Pigeon

As I cycled through the Punggol Park Connector, I was greeted by awesome views. I will let the photos do the talking.

So peaceful and serene 

These look like giant bonsais

Is this a pretty view or what?

I soon arrived at Lorong Halus Wetlands and decided to explore it a bit. I saw a pond with water lilies. Somehow, water lilies seem to evoke a sense of calm. I find them almost magical.

Water Lily Pond

Seems to have a magical glow

Looks magical

Family of 3

Busy Bees at Work

Beacon of Light

Twins

As I cycled through Punggol Waterway, I cannot help but envy the lucky folks who have bought their homes here. It reminded me of Venice.

Singapore's National Bird - The Crane at Work :)

Imagine this in your backyard

Complete with water feature

As I neared the end of my adventure, I came across a "kampong". What a magical sight. This was along Lorong Buangkok. Sadly, I am sure its days are numbered in the name of progress. If they have to make way for development, I hope the new buildings show more character than a modern day fire station.

There are still kampongs in Singapore?

It was an awesome ride. According to my iPhone App called "Map My Ride", I covered 28.35 km and burned 1,109 calories on my ride today. Now I can tuck into my Mee Rebus without feeling guilty :)

Picture of Calm and Serenity

Ohm......

I live in the Ang Mo Kio area and nestled between Ang Mo Kio Avenue 1 and Sin Ming Avenue is a strip of lush greenery called Bishan Park. It was redeveloped not too long ago at a cost of about $76M. I am told that's about the same price as developing a 72 hole golf course (minus land cost). Anyway, I am digressing.
This morning, I decided to check this park out and was blown away. Armed with my trusty camera, I inspected the park like an pseudo Park Inspector. I was not disappointed. Check out the photo at the lotus pond. Is this a picture of serenity or what? This was the only blooming lotus flower and it appeared to light up the whole pond. Here's another view.

Like the fire of passion

As I cycled along the Park Connector, I chanced upon this view. I have a thing for clouds. It is almost a fetish. I made the best of the situation as I did not have a filter on my camera. I underexposed the shot in order to capture the details of the Cumulus Cloud...yes, the puffy one on the bottom right of the screen.

Got It !

Moving along, I stood in awe at this scene. This stream with Bishan estate in the background. As I was soaking up this sight, the rumble of the MRT train heading from Bishan MRT to Ang Mo Kio MRT stations made it all the more perfect. It is a pity the photo does not capture audio :)

Postcard Perfect .... almost!

After the MRT train rumbled past, I realised that I had company. I was sharing this picturesque scene with a chameleon which was sitting on a rock right in front of me! See if you can spot him in the photo below. OK, I'll make this photo extra large :)

Mr Chameleon (Perched on the rock on the right) Sharing my Sunshine

As I explored the meandering stream, I chanced upon Mr Chameleon's twin brother :) For the photo buffs out there, this photo was not shot with a macro or zoom lens. It was shot with a 28 mm lens and cropped on my PC. I love my camera.......actually, I love my lens more than my camera :)

Mr Chameleon's Twin Brother

As I was heading home, I chanced upon a cricket game in Bishan Park. Yes, I said "Cricket". This photo sums it all up for me. Who would have imagined that. It is a signal that we have arrived as a global village.

Cricketeers

I think NParks has done a fabulous job with the transformation of Bishan Park. I hope whoever he/she is got a bonus for meeting this KPI.......unless it was scuttled by the Brompton thingy :p
Anyway, thank you for Bishan Park !

Reflection...noitcelfeR

Awesome Reflection as rendered by a Nikon D700

In case you are wondering what the second word in the subject header means, it is "Reflection"spelt backwards. Hmmm.....that did not go very well. The human mind is a funny thing. It can sometimes spot minute details in a split second but other times, it stares us in the face and we still don't get it.

Such was my experience some weeks back when I trekked to Punggol end at 5:30 am to photograph the sunrise. It was pitch dark when I arrived at the beach and armed with my tactical torchlight, I could barely make my way along the rock strewn beach. I set up my camera and sat, perched on a rock waiting for mother nature to turn on the lights :) Yup, she turned it on alright, but there was no oomph. The sky lit up gradually, as with every morning for the last I don't know how many thousand years. That morning, there was no pizazz. The lights came on and there was no drama of daylight erupting into life. I took more than 100 shots in the hope that I would catch something. Alas, this was not to be.

OK, if you want to see the best photo of the lot, it would probably be this:

Not worth Printing ... don't waste paper

Sad eh? Only one barely usable photo from the pile. I would not even print it on paper as I feel it is a waste of photo paper :p

Dejected that I had voluntarily deprived myself of sleep that morning, I decided to cut my losses and reward myself with a well deserved Dosa Masala. On my way to the car park, I chanced upon one of the most beautiful reflections I have seen for a long time. (That's the photo at the top of the page.) My son has a better rendition of it because he used an ND (Neutral Density) filter (see below). I thought it looked great. I have never been a big fan of filters, thinking that most things can be fixed post production. I am a convert now :)

Reflection with ND filter as rendered by a Nikon D800

What was my reflection of this Reflection? I was reminded of two quotes:
 "Life is a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get." - Forrest Gump
"When life gives you lemons, make lemonade." - Dale Carnegie
I have since come up with my own:
"While you are making lemonade, don't forget to smell the roses."

Remember, life is what we make of our journey on earth and not about the destination. Have a good life, everyone :)

A Special Watch

I have a modest collection of watches which were acquired since the 1980s. Some watches were bought while others were presents. I wished I had watches from earlier on. However, being an "engineer" at heart, I developed a curious knack for dismantling anything mechanical just so that I could see the inner workings. Some of the time, I ended up with some spare parts after I try to put it back together :p I have always been fascinated with the intricate inner workings of mechanical watches.
I would like to dedicate this blog to my trusty Casio watch. As it states on the face, it is a Casio Digi Graph 100m. This watch was a present from my wife in the late 1980's. I loved the unusual graphical display. I wore this watch on weekends and during my National Service stints (it was known as reservist during my time). Oh yes, this was the watch I used to time all my 2.4 km run during my IPPT (Individual Physical Proficiency Test). I must have taken at least 15 IPPTs during my reservist stint.
As you can see, it has taken its fair share of wear and tear. However it still works like a charm. All it needs is a battery every 3 to 4 years -  yes, the battery lasts that long. It has never broken down in the last 25 years. The interesting thing is it is a perpetual calendar. This watch knows which are the leap years and that there will be 29 days in February during the leap year.
This watch has a special place in my heart because my son loved to put it on when he went swimming as a young child. He must have been around 5 years old then. He was amazed that this watch could stay submerged without sustaining any damage while is Mickey Mouse watch stops working whenever he accidentally (so he says) plunges it under a running tap while washing his hands.
I started to collect watches formally in the late 1990's. I am not one of those with hundreds of watches. I collect reasonably priced signature pieces from major watch brands. These are some of my personal rules for collecting watches:
1/ They must be mechanical (I do not buy quartz watches)
2/ They must be made by true-blue watch companies and not fashion houses
3/ They should be signature pieces (i.e. the model should pop into you mind when the watch brand is named. This makes it easier to resell the watch.)
4/ I must like the face and feel of the watch
If I were to run my Casio watch through this checklist, it only qualifies under item (4) mentioned above. Technically, it does not make the cut as a collectible watch in my books, yet it I have grown a strong sentimental attachment to the watch.
I realise that the things we truly treasure are not the expensive things we own, but the simple items that have seen us through our journey in life. It is the same with friends - those we value are the ones who gave us a helping hand or a leg up when it was needed.
Life is not about seeking perfection but about experiencing and appreciating the journey, no matter how pleasant or difficult. If we get too caught up with our personal setbacks, we will miss the forest for the trees. (...or as one of my former bosses would say, miss the trees for the forest :p .... that's a story for another day :)

I'm Scooting (Away)

My wife and I were lucky enough to win a pair of tickets on a budget airline to the Gold Coast, or so we thought. I have never been a big fan of budget airlines but decided to give them a try anyway. Being  a true blue Singaporean, the prospect of free tickets was quite appealing :)
When we received the letter awarding the prize ticket, there were a list of terms and conditions. I have always believed that if you wanted to give anything away (especially a prize), please be gracious and not attach conditions which make the award seem like a half hearted gesture. I guess the folks at the airline are on a different page here.
Anyway, our adventure began when we went online to make the bookings. I realised that there were several "options". As this was a budget airline, we decided to pamper ourselves a little bit. We were not allowed to upgrade the economy class tickets to business class.....sigh. Anyway, we purchased meals, blankets, pillows, extra legroom and even checked in luggage! After adding up the extras, my wife and I paid more than S$800 for the trip. Oh, there is also an option to reserve iPads for entertainment but none were available at the time of booking. After looking st these extras, I was almost fearful that if I pressed the call bell during the flight, I would be charged extra for the cabin crew to attend to me :p.
For the uninitiated, I hope to share my experience so that you can benefit from it and save a few dollars in the process. To put it bluntly, I hope it will save you from disappointment too :)
As it was a red-eye (night) flight, we ordered breakfast. Immediately after the flight was airborne, the cabin crew came round dishing out our meal, which was a sandwich. I told the cabin crew that we ordered it for breakfast but she checked her list and said told me that we ordered the sandwich.....duh? Maybe it was her way to telling me,"Look pal, just take the sandwich now and you can eat it whenever you want." It was a weird tasting cold chicken sandwich - almost like eating cold chicken otah sandwich which had been sitting in the fridge for a day.
We also ordered blankets and pillows for both legs of the flight. Thinking that the blankets and pillows were hired items (like the iPads), we ordered a set each for both legs of the journey. I found out that we actually bought the items, like you would buy meals, checked luggage, etc. I only realised this when I saw the passenger next to me pack the blanket into his cabin bag when we landed at the Gold Coast. The blanket was small (smaller than the one provided by its full-serviced elder sibling airline) and the pillow was not even a regular pillow but an inflatable travel pillow. The eye shades were nice though. The blanket and pillow set was not cheap. On hindsight, I expected at least a regular pillow for the price we paid.
We bought 20 kg of luggage each for each way. Way overkill. Both of us could have done away with a total of 25kg on the outbound trip and possibly 40 kg on the return to buy the wonderful Australian chocolates, nougats and other shopping :) Chocolates are very heavy, but their weight is worth every calorie.
The extra legroom was really handy. It made the trip more bearable. Oh, by the way, don't expect lots of legroom. When you buy the extra legroom, you get a that of regular economy class seats, like on Etihad (not SIA). The seat was unfortunately not that good. The cushion was tired and had collapsed. I could almost feel the bottom of the seat frame. Dear Airline, if you charge passengers for the extra legroom, please ensure the seat cushions are of decent standard. Otherwise, I suggest that you sell an option for fresh seat cushions, but do tell your customer if they are allowed to take it with them at the end of the flight :p
The cabin crew were nothing to shout about. Frankly, I find SIA crew more warm and friendly despite having to do alot more during the flight. Do we have to pay extra for them to be warm and hospitable?
Overall, the flight was uneventful, thankfully.
Personally, I think budget airlines have carried this option thing too far. On medium to long haul flights, they ought to provide some basic creature comfort rather than take the approach of passengers having to buy extras, including water!
I'm scooting off ....... to another airline :p